An inspirational story of “f yous…….”
There are people that you frighten. Literally. Your confidence and assertiveness scare the (insert your grandmother’s word for excrement here) out of some people. Do not change. Forge on. They will either DFO (done fall out) or step up their game to stay in your orbit.
Everyone lives from experience. Some think they have it all figured out. They know just what and what not to do in their relationships that will ensure success, or more importantly, will keep them from avoiding failure. Again. It is better to love and lose than to never love again.
Everyone has a story, a past, a string of broken hearts. It’s made us who we are right now. Does it make you stronger or ultimately weaker? Do you think that putting up walls will keep your heart from being scorched again? Love is such a wonderful feeling. Caring about someone else’s happiness more than your own and having someone that feels that for you. But, if you’re in a situation where you’re the only one giving? There’s only so much you can do. If they ask that you wait and help them along? Great. If they’ve already put the restrictions on what you can become? Walking away is the best idea.
I don’t know how they find us. The emails from all the “experts” telling us how to “get the guy” and “make yourself more his type…” really? I’m not changing. I’m not going to play some game to make someone wonder about me. I love with everything I have, show all my cards. It’s just how I am. Doing something else just isn’t even comfortable. And really? Why do people keep feelings for someone inside? Wasting them because of fear.
Bottom line? I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me back. Nor should you.
Let them go. They have their own stuff to figure out. It’s not you. It’s them. You keep on rockin that hot bod, gorgeous smile and outgoing personality. Do not ever be ashamed of giving someone 110% if they respond with a “no thanks.” You know you were yourself and didn’t hold back. Delete the emails telling you to do “this or that” and “watch the turnaround.” Ha. Games. No thanks.
If they like you. You will know. We make time, even minutes, for someone who matters to us.
And that is why you will find the love you so deserve…..the ones who don’t deserve you?
F em. With a smile on your face. Be grateful and move on.
Love hard, it’s the freakin best way to do it.